I will stick with my standard three card spread. What shall the question be?
How can I better get along with my step dad?
The Hanged Man, Judgement, The Tower…
On the surface… this kinda looks like our relationship. We silently accepted each other, we are okay right now (Its not always like this), And a huge fight is never too far away.
The Hanged Man- Silent acceptance
Judgement- A call of some sort (maybe me actually seeking to make our relationship better)
The Tower- To break through, we must break down… maybe its the barriers that we have both put up, maybe its just a fight that will make us realize that he have just be cruel to each other in the past.
Answer- To get a better relationship with my step dad, we need to sit down and air out all of our difference, this might lead to a fight but in the end we might just be the better for it.
My thoughts- Unbalance. Okay, so a confession… I have ocd. So the first thing I notice is that the cups aren’t stacked evenly. It appears to me, as if the sun and the moon are both in the sky as this person is walking around the river/creek. At least he is wearing bright colors so he will be seen.
The book- The Eight of Cups is about leaving the known and comfortable for the unknown. The reasons and results are different for each journey and seeker. What is common to the experience is the promise of transformation. Even if we return, we will be different, and therefore nothing will ever be the same again.
The Universal Waite Card- A man leaves his ordered rows of cups. There is clearly something missing, indicated by the open space in the top row. He seeks that missing piece. The mountains in the background imply a challenging journey, and the moon represent change and the unknown.
Core Meaning- Leaving something behind to search for something else.
My thoughts- So many choices. Every single cup has a different choice, and with it, and different outcome. I do have to say that I don’t think I would choose the image that is either a funky mushroom or a poorly attired ghost.
The book- The Seven of Cups shows all of our dreams and desires laid out, awaiting our consideration. This card doesn’t tell us how to choos. It expresses the feelings we have in the face of possibilities and implies the downside of this experience: until a choice is made, there is a lack of focus.
The Universal Waite Card- The figure is darkened and his back is to us, indicating confusion and distraction. The dreams are looming so large that they are casting him in a shadow. The contrast between the man and the cups is unsettling.
Core Meaning- Dreams and desires.
To bad our dreams and desires don’t always mesh.
My thoughts- This card reminds me of the happiness of childhood. Picking flowers and playing with friends. Every cup in this card is filled with what I’m assuming are white lilies. The two children are in the town square. There is on person in the background… reminding me that I was never without supervision as a child, especially in public.
The book- Although we do have happy memories, sad memories, and every sort in between, the Six of Cups is about the pleasant ones. The role those memories play in our current lives depends on circumstances. The memory in question can be from the distant past or it could be one in the making. Like all the cards, it must be read in context.
The Universal Waite Card- is a scene of sweet and gentle kindness. The white flowers in the ups symbolize innocent pleasures and gifts without strings. The image may strike some as being too idyllic or overly sentimental, leading some to read this card as romanticizing the past.
Core Meaning- Happy memories.
What are some of your happy memories?
My thoughts- So many emotions in the cups…. makes sense though, emotions and feelings can ebb and flow like the tides that are controlled by the moon and it pull. This man is so upset over the three overturned cups. Why doesn’t he see the two cups that aren’t overturned? Does this mean that the happiness of the Three of Cups is over?
The book- The Five of Cups is not about what or who has left our lives but about our experience of and reaction to that now-empty space. It represents a period of mourning. The card does not say whether the grief is warranted or not, just that it is being experienced.
The Universal Waite Card- Shows the stages of grief in one image. The scene in the foreground has denial (his back is turned), anger (the cups have been kicked or knocked over), and bargaining and depression (he is hunched over with his head down). The background contains the final step of acceptance… crossing the bridge into the city to begin anew. The figure is in the middle but nearing the end of the grieving process.
Core Meaning- experience of loss and grief.
My thoughts- This guy is so unhappy with what he has, and so used to having it, that he doesn’t see the gift being given to him. much like the Ace of Cups, a mysterious hand is offering up a cup from a cloud. This card fills me with disappointment and forlorn. Why isn’t he seeing the other cup?
The book- The Four of Cups does not necessarily represent a specific response; it is more about the feeling of being dissatisfies.
The Universal Waite Card- Shows a man who is unhappy with the options set in front of him in the form of cups. He has either lost interest in the ideal-represented by the hand present a cup, reminiscent of the gift given in the Ace of Cups- or he has not yet seen it. In this image, it is not completely clear whether he will give in to apathy or if he will see a new possibility.
Core Meaning- Dissatisfaction with reality.
This card so speaks to me right now. I’ve been reading some really good fiction… reality just doesn’t always measure up.But on the flip side, I am happy with my reality as well.
My thoughts- There are three people holding up three cups. They seem to be toasting something. I have always found it slightly unsettling that I cant really see the third persons face. They are each crossing the other’s arms with theirs. If you got an aerial view you would see a triangle.
The Book- This card represents those moments or feelings of general goodwill, contentment, and the sense that everything is okay with the world… even if only for that moment. It is usually a shared experience, resulting from the synergy of the group, but it can be felt along, when happiness fills the heart for no apparent reason.
The Universal Waite Card- features abundance and simple pleasures, with its pumpkin and grapes. It looks like a feast or a party. The three women with their unlifted cups represent the social aspect and mutual affection. Fun frivolity, and overflowing happiness abound.
Core Meaning- A spontaneous, unexpected joy or pleasure.